By Mitch Lartigue
There’s a popular saying that “crisis builds character.” But from my experience in emergency management and critical care, I believe something slightly different: crisis doesn’t build character—it reveals it.
In moments of calm, anyone can appear composed, capable, and in control. But when a situation unravels—when the unexpected hits, and time is short and lives are at stake—you don’t become someone new. You become more of who you already are.
I’ve worked in ICUs and disaster zones. I’ve stood at the center of emergencies where decisions had to be made in seconds. And I’ve also stood in the aftermath of professional and personal crises that tested my resolve in entirely different ways. In both spaces, I’ve learned that pressure strips away pretense. It shows your instincts, your discipline, your empathy—or your fear, your ego, your excuses.
That’s not something to fear—it’s something to pay attention to.
The beauty of character is that it can be shaped. But it’s not shaped in the moment of crisis. It’s shaped before, in how you train, how you prepare, how you take ownership of your actions, and how you treat people when no one’s watching. That’s what shows up when the pressure hits.
I’ve had to face truths about myself, some hard and some encouraging. But I’ve also seen that when you own your past, stay grounded in your values, and choose integrity over image, you become someone who can be counted on—not just when things are easy, but when they truly matter.
In crisis, the masks fall off. But for those committed to self-awareness, growth, and doing the right thing—even when it’s hard—what’s revealed is character you can stand behind.



